💛 The Toilet: A Mum’s Hidden Sanctuary During Summer Holidays?
- Olola'De Jide-Ajayi

- Jul 30
- 2 min read
Updated: Sep 15

Let’s be honest…
Some mums meditate. Some mums journal. And some mums hide in the loo—with dignity, snacks, and unmatched resilience. 🚽🍌
As the school holidays stretch out like an endless game of “Are we there yet?”, many busy mums in the UK are quietly Googling “how to survive summer parenting” while their children knock—relentlessly—on locked bathroom doors.
And if that’s you? You’re not alone.
🫶 Mum Moments: The Sacred Escape
The toilet isn’t just a bathroom. It’s a brief oasis. A mindfulness pod. A space where the chaos pauses, if only for a few deep breaths and a bite of a slightly bruised banana.
I created a short video to honour these everyday escapes—because I used to be just like you. Hiding in the loo, whispering affirmations between cartoon reruns and snack negotiations.
Here’s the reel if you missed it:
🌿 Where Is Your Hiding Spot?
We all have one. It could be:
The car parked just outside your own house 🛻
The shed (with your colouring book and a thermos) 🖍️☕
The walk-in closet where you pretend to fold clothes but breathe 👚😮💨
Or yes... the toilet.
Let’s normalise it. Let’s talk about it. Let’s celebrate the creative, chaotic, and completely human ways mums care for their mental health.
👉 Drop a comment below or DM me on Instagram: Where is your summer hiding place? 💬Let’s lift each other with solidarity, snacks, and laughter.
🎓 A Word for Our Teachers
To every teacher out there: Thank you for the calm before the storm. We salute your patience, planning, and the peaceful classrooms we now dream about daily.
May your tea stay hot. Your books remain closed (for now). And may you know we miss you more than words can say.
💌 Stay Connected
This summer, I’ll be sharing more stories, bundles, and self-care ideas just for mums. From colouring books to gratitude journals, everything I create is rooted in one question: How can I make your day just a little softer?
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📌 Save this post on Pinterest for your “survival stash










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