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I am a foodie and I love cooking. This is my bowl of goat meat pepper soup, which you can eat with yam, eko, or agege bread ( unhealthy, I know, but I have only one life).
This category will be about cravings... and personal and honest opinions.


Building, Balancing, Becoming: My Year as a Mum-Entrepreneur
This was me writing in one of the journals. About 2 years ago, I made a decision that changed everything — I stepped into entrepreneurship not to achieve more, but to be more. I had completed postgraduate studies, pushed myself academically, and followed the traditional path of growth… yet something inside me still felt unfinished. I wanted to build something that mattered to busy mums like me — women who are exhausted but still show up for their families every day. That dre

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Shift Your Gaze: Choosing Gratitude When Life Doesn’t Go As Planned
I had a plan, you know. For my 50th birthday, I was meant to be sipping something fruity on a cruise, watching the ocean shimmer while pretending I didn’t have responsibilities waiting back home. It was going to be my moment — a celebration of half a century of life, love, and lessons. But it didn’t happen. Life had other plans (as it often does). The cruise didn’t go ahead, and for a minute, I felt that sting — disappointment, frustration, even a bit of “why me?”. I could ha

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Let Judah Go First — A November of Gratitude.
November is the month of Thanksgiving at Ruthy Michaels. It is a time to pause, reflect, and honour the quiet victories of the year—not just the goals we reached, but the grace that carried us through. A woman in quiet reflection—eyes closed, hands over heart. This year, I’m showcasing three heartfelt offerings: Gratitude Journal for Adults — a space to reflect, release, and rejoice Gratitude Colouring Book for Children — gentle pages for little hands and big hearts Thankfu

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Unplanned Departures: A Gentle Reflection on Diaspora, Dreams, and Legacy
He came with a suitcase full of dreams. Just one suitcase. And a heart full of hope. Let’s call him “A.” He left behind everything familiar—family, language, the rhythm of home—for a new beginning in the UK or any other Western country. He believed in the promise of a better life. He imagined working hard, saving, and returning home to build something lasting. He told his wife, “Just a few years. I’ll be back before you know it.” But the years stretched. Life here was harder

Olola'De Jide-Ajayi
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Key Emotional Health Advice for Everyday Life
Life can feel like a whirlwind sometimes, can't it? Between juggling work, family, and a million little things in between, it’s easy to...

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4 min read


Who Forced You to Marry the Coconut-Head Man?
A woman laughing. Let’s talk, sis. You’re sitting there, arms folded, staring at your husband like he’s the biggest mistake you ever...

Olola'De Jide-Ajayi
2 min read


Who’s Speaking Into Your Life?
Adam and Eve in the Garden. “Did God really say…?” That was the serpent’s whisper to Eve. A little doubt, a little twist of the truth —...

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1 min read


The Day My Phone Outsmarted Me
Some of the front covers of our books. What’s that one habit that makes you mad at yourself? You know, the one that makes your family...

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The Doughnut Dilemma: Mum Said Eat It Before It Finds You in Your Dreams
Phew—we made it. Summer's been a whirlwind of snacks, screen time negotiations, and “Mummy, can I…” on repeat. And now, school’s about to...

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✨The Curse of the First Born — A Story of Silent Strength and Sacrifice.
She stands where paths divide—carrying generations in her silence. ✨The Curse of the First Born — A Story of Silent Strength and...

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